Hydrogen bonding

The dipole, reaching out. Water's O–H bond leaves the hydrogen with a strong, naked δ+ — no inner electrons to hide behind — and the next molecule's oxygen offers a lone pair (δ−). The two attract: O–H···O, a hydrogen bond. It is weak — about 20 kJ/mol, a twentieth of the covalent bond inside the molecule — but there are billions of them, and that is enough to make water liquid where it should be gas, to hold ice open so it floats, and to zip and unzip DNA. Heat it past 100° and watch them snap.

Bridge-Burners LLC · Fiddler · δ+H···lonepair · ~20 kJ/mol · one molecule → the ocean · anchor: AKASHA

State

phaseliquid
H-bonds intact~3.5 / molecule
density1.00 g/cm³
notedenser than ice

Strength ladder

covalent O–H~460 kJ/mol (inside molecule)
hydrogen bond~20 kJ/mol · O···O 280 pm
dipole–dipole~5–15 kJ/mol
London (vdW)~1–5 kJ/mol

What it buys

boiling pt100°C — without H-bonds ≈ −80°C
ice floats0.92 vs 1.00 g/cm³ (open lattice)
DNAA=T 2 H-bonds, G≡C 3 — zips/unzips

Status discipline

Literalδ+ H on O/N/F–H attracts a lone pair on O/N/F; ~20 kJ/mol; each water bonds ~4 (2 donor H + 2 acceptor pairs); ice's open lattice floats; H-bonds lift water's BP ~180°C.
BridgeThe water dipole reaching the next molecule; one molecule → bulk water, ice, biology; the strong end of intermolecular forces.
SpeculativeMostly electrostatic but with some covalent/charge-transfer character (debated); point-charge cartoon schematic. Liquid water is dynamic — "4" is the ice ideal, liquid averages ~3.4–3.6 on picosecond lifetimes.